Playing with Dad

You can tell these are kind of old videos, because our living room has been redone since then!

Sharing Grammy

Last weekend Victor and I got to make a little trip to Iowa (while Ben went on the men's retreat).

Betsy and Hudson (and Trudy the dog) headed over say hi shortly after we arrived, and Grammy was holding Victor.  Hudson was not so sure what was going on with another baby playing with Grammy.  He wrapped his little arms around her neck and just looked at Victor for a loong while.

Must confess, Betsy and I were busting a gut.




But it didn't take long for Hudson to warm up to his cousin, and the boys did great playing together!

Daylight Savings

Victor doesn't understand Daylight Savings.

So I had an extra hour this morning and wondered what I should do with it.

Thought I should do something oriented on others rather than my first instinct (eat the batch of puppy chow I made last night and read blogs).  So I decided to make some corn bread to share with friends.

Victor was a bit restless, so I had him in one arm and was making my corn bread with the others.  Pulled a glass jar of powdered milk out of the fridge (by the lid), and - smash - glass and powdered milk everywhere (around my bare feet).

So we decided to leave that be for a bit, and I took Victor in to change his diaper and get him dressed.  Dropped the Cetaphil lid behind the changing table (rats).  Just a little slow to get the new diaper on, so everything to the south of the changing table got a bit of a sprinkle.

But we decided to leave that be for a bit too.

Finished dressing the Victor-mobile, scrubbed up the various wet articles in the bedroom.  Plopped Victor in the pack-n-play and started the process of cleaning up the broken glass.  (So much more stressful now that there's a crawler around!) 

Swept, mopped, vacuumed, threw the rug in the wash (along with the various washables from the bedroom sprinkling incident).  Finished mixing up the corn bread and popped it (finally) into the oven.

And it was only 7:15am.

Conclusion: Deciding to try to honor God with a morning does not mean that the morning will be trouble-free.  But it will probably give me a better attitude about it!

Movie Marathon

I have been meaning to post quite a few videos, but time keeps slipping away.  So, for the next 5 days, we'll have a little Victor movie marathon. :)

First up, a little fun with Daddy (from yesterday morning).

The Abortion Issue

Abortion is an ongoing travesty, both in our nation and around the world.

This is an excellent post about the abortion issue and how we engage with others in discussion with sensitivity and discretion.  Surely it does not honor the Lord to speak foolish, heedless, bludgeoning, or wimpy words on such an important topic. 

I was particularly helped by some examples on how to talk about abortion in the context of rape:

Scott Klusendorf points out that there are two types of people who ask about rape and abortion: the learner and the crusader. It’s helpful to know who you are dealing with. ” The learner is genuinely trying to work through the issue and resolve it rationally. The crusader just wants to make you, the pro-lifer, look bad.” In both cases, Klusendorf points out, “it’s our job to demonstrate wisdom and sensitivity.”
So when someone says that a child conceived by rape will remind the woman of this heinous crime forever, Klusendorf responds:

That’s an important question and you are absolutely right: She may indeed suffer painful memories when she looks at the child and it’s foolish to think she never will. I don’t understand people who say that if she’ll just give birth, everything will be okay.  That’s easy for them to say. They should try looking at it from her perspective before saying that.  Even if her attacker is punished to the fullest extent of the law—which he should be—her road to recovery will be tough.

He then delicately and gently asks one primary follow-up question:

Given we both agree the child may provoke unpleasant memories, how do you think a civil society should treat innocent human beings that remind us of a painful event? . . .  Is it okay to kill them so we can feel better?

In the course of the conversation, he is trying to get them to see the following:

If the unborn are human, killing them so others can feel better is wrong. Hardship doesn’t justify homicide.
Admittedly, I don’t like the way my answer feels because I know the mother may suffer consequences for doing the right thing. But sometimes the right thing to do isn’t the easy thing to do.

Here are two thought experiments that might help:

Suppose I have a two-year-old up here with me.  His father is a rapist and his mother is on anti-depressant drugs. At least once a day, the sight of the child sends her back into depression. Would it be okay to kill the toddler if doing so makes the mother feel better?

And:

Suppose I’m an American commander in Iraq and terrorists capture my unit.  My captors inform me that in 10 minutes, they’ll begin torturing me and my men to get intelligence information out of us. However, they are willing to make me an offer.  If I will help them torture and interrogate my own men, they won’t torture and interrogate me.  I’ll get by with no pain. Can I take that deal? There’s no way. I’ll suffer evil rather than inflict it.
Again, I don’t like how the answer feels, but it’s the right one. Thankfully, the woman who is raped does not need to suffer alone. Pro-life crisis pregnancy centers are standing by to help get her through this. We should help, too.

Back to how politicians should answer this. Here is Doug Wilson’s suggestion to pro-life candidates:

When a rape results in a pregnancy, this means that we are now dealing with three people instead of two. Two of those three are innocent, and one of them is guilty. Take a case of violent rape. The pro-choice ghouls want to do two things—first, they want to go easy on the guilty one, refusing to execute him, while executing one of the innocent parties for something his father did, and secondly, they want to make out anyone who objects to this arrangement as the callused one.
In the future (as if any of these guys are taking my counsel), pro-life candidates for office need to answer the question in this way: “That is an excellent question, but we have to settle certain things first before we answer it. When a rape results in a pregnancy, are we dealing with three people or two?” And then he should refuse to answer the question until the reporter tells him “three or two,” along with the reasons why. This is how the Lord handled this sort of question.

HT: Justin Taylor

News of Late

I have wanted to post a dozen or so different thoughts, updates, videos, and pictures, but the past several weeks have been a bit of a whirlwind.

But Victor just woke up, so here's another delay!  :)

Women of Truth

Pastor John gave a great message on why it matters if we believe in truth and why he believes the Bible is true.

HT: Bethlehem Baptist Church 2012 Women's Conference